♥ Saturday, July 23, 2011 ' 11:07 PM ♥
When two becomes one. 
This day is simply amazing.
I have never thought I will marry this guy when I first met him.
My first impression for him was so bad then, I thought he can never be my boyfriend. It must be destiny, that not only he became someone I fell in love with, also someone I wanna spend my whole life with.
It's amazing that, out of the thousand million of people in the world, my heart chooses him. It's an important decision to made, that this is the man that I decided to spent my life with, no matter for the good or for worse, we both gonna go through it together. And he is just the right man, I chose to share the same bed with me, spend my life with me, who I believe, will take good care of me.
He may not be the first guy that I fell in love with.
But it was him that make me realised how much I have to treasure this love that is given to me as a gift. And I shall make him as my last lover, my only wedded husband..
He just know how to love the imperfect me so perfectly, and love me for who I really am. If I have not met him, perhaps I'm still living aimlessly in life, without any goals and achievements. Thank you my love, thank you for all the good and the bad times that we had gone through. We are still holding on so strongly, for a better future, a better tomorrow.
11 June 2011Him:
我美丽的新娘子, 今天你要嫁给我啦。。It's the first thing that he told me when I opened my eyes early in the morning when I saw him smiling so silly to himself.
Simple, sweet and lovely.
I realised that for the past 7 years of our relationship, he never once said to me "I love you" directly on my face, not even when he proposed and exchanging our wedding vows.
Yet again, his actions speaks louder than words.
The things that he did already make me feel so loved by him so much that he doesn't have to say the 3 magical words just to prove that he loves me.
Somehow, I felt so loved that day even though it's such a simple affair.
I'm looking forward to my customary wedding next year! =)
Checked in MBS, Orchid Suite @ 2pm.
Spectacular view overlooking Marina Bay!!
My heels is so bling that day!
To take a closer look, it's an imitation of Jimmy Choo's.
Which I fell in love with on a Korean drama, Prosecutor Princess.
And to save 75bucks from buying a 21 roses bouquet, we DIY it ourselves at only less than 20bucks! Lovely-made by my hubby somemore. LOLs!!
21 Red Roses meaning My Passionate Love Devoted to You.
Nope, my sweet darling did not do my hair.
I did mine at the salon which I always frequents in Jurong West neighbourhood.
On top of that, I did my own make-up that day!
But well, was not a perfect one though because I was rushing out of time! Ryan's family came so early and I had a hard time to keep them entertained. Boo! And to be honest, if my beis wasn't there that day, I might not be able to cope.
Finally, we are done and ready for some photoshoot before the ceremony started.
Special thanks to Kennie, Qinhui, Fong Cheng & Qun Kai being my photpographer and videographer of the day! We felt like some superstar with so many DSLR snapping away during the whole ceremony! Lols!!
Greatly appreciated for the help and thank you so much for the effort!! *HUGS*
Despite us being so broke from all the renovation works and saving up for our customary wedding, this is perhaps the only thing that Ryan refused to let go.
As I said, there was no ring when he proposed to me, so this may be the compensation for getting my dream ring for me. A brand, a design I always wanted.
Once, we were quarrelling about his request to postpone of our ROM date as he hadn't saved enough for the ring. To me, it was a sensitive issue because I thought it was just an excuse for him to delay it, I don't find it a big deal if we going to settle the wedding bands in some other jewellery shops instead. And I abruptly hanged his calls and refused to answer it when he called back. As usual, that's my style.
He then dropped me an SMS, pleasing me to give him another two months time to save up for the ring. Reason being, because he did not afford to give me a proposal ring when he was still a student, and that I waited for his return, this is the only thing that he can do to make my wish come true of giving me a Cartier even if he can't afford a Brilliant Rose Solitaire in time.
Sometimes, I feel disgusted by my evil actions too. So I'm learning to be a good wife and listen to his reason first before exploding myself.
A single diamond in his.
A row of four little diamonds in mine.
I like how this design look like those wheels in the watch instead of a plain round ring. And it definately more sparkling in real life for its white gold quality of Cartier.
Finally, the ceremony started at 4.30pm.
Pre-arranged with Dr Phua, one of the most popular GP, to solemnise our marriage.
Pleased with my choice, he's indeed a good one to live up the whole ceremony.
Do you take her to be your wedded wife to live together in marriage.
Do you promise to love, comfort, honor and keep her. For better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health.
And forsaking all others, be faithful only to her so long as you both shall live?A simple series of questions, but it took one's courage to make a lifetime's decision.
I remembered I replied a "I very willingly do." Haahhahaha!
And instead of reading the same old vow, I chose to write up one myself.
It was obtained by a poem The Promises.
No empty promising, but comforting words to let him know that I'll always be there.
Throughout the ceremony, it was full of laughters.
I don't feel like tearing even when Ryan cited the vows to me.
It was when my GP reminded us that we must go home frequently to see our mum and dad because they will miss us after we moved out that make me feel like crying.
My weakest point, to mention about my family, my pillar of strength.
My Part I ROM ended after Ryan's and my family walked over to Singapore Flyer for a sit down chinese dinner. They left after that and we walked back again to our hotel room for the Part II, Hangover.
My customised cake Tiffany & Co. inspired Oreo Chocolate Cake!
There's a meaning behind this.
When Ryan first had the intention of marrying me was before he left for England.
He gave me this Tiffany & Co. bracelet and asked me to wait for his return, and he promised to marry me once he graduated from his course.
And amazingly, we conquered the freaking 2 years of Long Distance Relationship!
I managed to found a home-based bakery to customised this cake upon my request, with Ryan's favourite Oreo fillings.
And it's super YUMMY!!
Sincerely thanks to all our close friends who came.
They are all our Bridesmaid and Bestman to be for our upcoming customary wedding. Sorry for not able to host every single one of you well. And I really felt bad for the little time spend because Ryan was so terribly drunk and concussed at 11pm!!! Gosh, a little spolited mood but well, his brothers were too happy for him to an extend that they over-drunk him I guessed.
Sweet golden rules for the four couples!
And my sisterhood which lasted for more than 10years and still counting!
Their little advices and sweet words brought me tears while I was reading it alone (with Ryan "drunk" on bed) at 2am in the morning!
My nurses friends. My best soulmates who always listens to my endless complains.
I can't imagine what could happened if I didn't met you girls!
Lastly, the bunch of brothers who make me go "husband-less" on my first night of married life, thanks for making the night so crazily fun and memorable!
To my beloved husband,
Thank you for loving me.
Your lovely wife who love you wholeheartedly, always.
