♥ Saturday, January 08, 2011 ' 11:08 PM ♥
First post of 2011
I read my last year's resolution and realised that most of the happy things that I've been anticipating happened, coming along with many unexpected surprises!
A year passed.
Ever since my 24th birthday, I felt myself getting older.
Ok, maybe Mature is the right word to use.
However, I wasn't that looking forward to my 24th birthday at all.
And please don't remind me that I'm 25th this year!!
I think 2010 was a goal-setting year for me.
It was the year where I finally realised what are those things I really wanted to achieve and who are the people I should really treasure.
It was a year I trained myself to be real independent.
Be it that I leave away from home again for the second time and went for a one month holiday in Europe; or after going through the longest 6 months separation with hubby, I am now no longer rely on him like how I used to anymore.
It really doesn't matter if he had time for me, because my schedule is always busier than his. And he is always complaining that my school work is never ending, one after another.
My goal and aim now is to have a stable career.
I don't know if it was because of my desires for achievement, or I just wanna prove to myself that I'm capable in doing it. I had completed my degree course in November, and am now whining everyday about this additional diploma course that I'm taking. Yet, a inner part of me wanted to challenge Master of Paediatric Oncology course in UK in a few years to come. I MUST BE CRAZY!!!
But well, many are asking me, do I really wanna leave my family and fly over to UK for the Master course since I'm settling down with hubby soon? My answer is, I really don't know what is going to happen in the future.
I'm glad that I finished up my studies first.
Then, it's time for me to enjoy doing things I love to do and settle down for my family. No doubt I missed out many fun which I supposed to have at my age though.
Instead of using the money to doll myself up, I threw it on my school fees. Instead of saving up for my marriage, I slurged it on my holiday-ing. Instead of partying my youth away, I spend most of my time at work and on assignments. Seriously, I don't know if I were to regret that my youth is wasted at such a pathetic way. But one thing for sure, I've accomplished my achievement at the age of 25.
You know, different people set their priorties differently.
I proudly declared that my best hobby is travelling.I love the feeling of going to a stranger country, experiencing their culture and adapt to their lifestyle. I enjoy seeing people and artitectures from the different countries. I always feel so lucky to have the chance to experience these, being able to travel half of the Europe. Though I can never be an air-stewardess anymore, I still can fulfill my dream of touring around the world without needing to serve people in the air. =)
Till now, I still can't explain my love for Europe.
I just simply can't get enough of it.
I'm having the urge of returning to Manchester and Paris again.
Believe me, in these few years time, I'll make a return. When it comes to travelling, I can always somehow make it possible to do the things I wanted to do and going places I wanted to go. And the best thing is, hubby is having the same feeling as I do!!
I targeted myself that for every 6 months, I must give myself a break and pamper myself by travelling to somewhere new.
And my him, being my best travel and shopping mate, gonna be my best companion.He's gonna be the man of my life, the one who gonna share the same pillow with me.
The man who I dated for years, is finally settling down and starting a family with me.
The years of waiting and suffering is finally coming to an end. And it's not gonna be easy to accept the fact that I'm finally going to stop behaving like a
spoilted girl cos I'm going be some one's wife soon. My job in the future is to learn to give in a little, doing
housechores and take care of my little family.
Ever since the proposal, I've been saying about wedding plans.
And finally it's 2011, I'm gonna face the reality soon.
It's going to be the year I'll be officially become Mrs
Teo, at the second half of the year.
Coming along with our new flat where we can call
HOME.Our LOVE NEST.After my once in a life time
som-bah-
ing to be his first and only wife, will be soon preparing our big event of customary wedding which will be taking place next year. So my first new year wish will be able to strike 4D cos I need
lotsa money!!
Getting married is one thing, still hoping for having spare cash for holiday is another!! =(
My mum, being my greatest motivation towards my achievement, is always been there to support me always.
Be it my stressful workload or quarrels with hubby, she is always the first to listen to my complaints and advised me what to do.
Mum and Dad, I'm so gonna make you feel proud of me this year.
In 2011, I finally able to fullfill your wish to don on the graduation robe and motar board.
This is what I think, the best present for you both.
All that I wished for is good health for my folks and family.
And my bunch of good friends, we had drifted apart
bcos we are always so busy with our own stuffs.
I realised when we gets older, the lesser friends we have.
Nevertheless, you don't need to have many friends, just a few will do.
Hey! You all should be damn proud to be my friends cos I do selections to hang out with those sincere ones only!
LOLs!!
This year, I'm looking forward to:
- Participating on the creation of my love nest with my English style Modern Design
- My very private and intimate Solemnisation with my Mr Teo
- Graduate from my blood-sucking Advanced Diploma Course
- My University Graduation
- Continue my love-hate job in my ward
- Honeymoon after my ROM (yet to decide on the destination)
Ok! That's all for now!!
Let's leave the past behind, because time will only move forward and it won't stop for your memories.
