♥ Monday, March 15, 2010 ' 4:58 PM ♥
Happy Marriage.
Knock off from work last night and felt very demoralised at work.
I have always been very happy working as a nurse and feel fortunate of what I'm working as for the past 3 years.
But ever since the management is getting more tensed, I felt very demoralised to the extend of wanting to throw my Staff Nurse badge with my resignation letter on the table and leave.
Dragged home last night, only to know that hubby is buying items that our blogshop customers ordered and is unable to talk to me, making my morale reached to the lowest point.
Lying on bed and watched Next Stop Happiness with my iPhone until 3am.
Logged in to MSN again and was delighted to see him online!
Climbed out from my comforter and switched my computer on to webcam with him.
Oh dear, he's not in the good mood too..
Cos of his never ending projects that he have to clear before his holiday..
But it's kind of weird that both of us are not in a good mood, once we saw each other in the webcam, we smiled. All unhappiness just being chased away temporary.
We talked about our problems, about his dream that he dreamt of the previous night. He dreamt of Singapore foods and woke up frustrating cos he's still in England. *LOLs!!
Oh boy, I just realised it's always the most torturing part during the last few days of his return.
Spend my lazy rainy afternoon on bed till 2pm.
Was blog-hopping and forum reading about weddings.
Came across this blog with a meaning quote:
The following is a recipe for a happy marriage;
Start with a big bowl of Trust
Pour in a capful of Patience
Add a dash of Forgiveness
Stir a spoonful of Kindness
Sprinkle a palmful of Encouragement
Sweeten with plenty of Couple Time
Spice things up with lots of Surprises
Top it all with a generous serving of Passion
How true is that?
And to my surprise, it was a girl who proposed to her boyfriend with this quote, hoping to have a happy marriage in 2011 but got rejected.. That's very very sad...
Whenever I brought up topic relating to wedding, he will always goes, "
Aiyoh.. you come and bi hoon (forced marriage) again..." (-_-")
And many girls are complaining in the forum that their boyfriend have not propose yet even though they already signed up with bridal packages, queuing for BTO etc..
Den, I saw this Ren Quang Xi proposed to He Yi Qian in Next Stop Happiness, I teared. And I went like, "
YOU SEE!! People will say how much the girl did for them, how much they need her and afraid of losing her tat's why propose one mah.. where got people like you de? I say No only you black face.. I like being forced to accept your proposal leh..."
Then, I got an answer from him,
"Ni zhen de shi shen zai fu zong bu zi fu, you know how long I planned to bring you there and proposed when Effiel Tower sparkling with lights?"
I better keep my mouth shut liao. HAHAHAHA.
Oh well, afterall, I'm one of those fortunate ones..
At least he proposed before our planning of wedding.
Today, received an mail from HDB, our BTO queue number for Chua Chu Kang flat is 20x, with the supply of 188 4-room flat. I think there's a chance for us to get the unit, but I'm not sure if we are really getting that.
Was in a dilemma cos it could mean 4 years of waiting to get it done and where are we supposed to live after our AD wedding?
Moreover, hubby's uncle is moving into an independent 3-storeys bungalow, he's waiting for hubby's return to see if we interested in his flat and gonna transfer it to us. And that could mean we can save a huge sum on COV for second-hand flat.
I have been comparing it for the whole day..
1. New 4rm flat
VS 40 years old 4rm flat
2. 4 years of waiting
VS immediate move-in
3. 95sqm
VS 128sqm
3. $5K deposit
VS no money need to be paid for now
4. away from both parents
VS away from my family but super near to his
Hais.. If you were me, which one will you guys choose?
I sort of prefer the 40 years old flat bcos of it's bigger space, at least nearer to his family instead of none. But I afraid of regretting purchasing old flat..
But it seems like hubby is not very interested cos living room and three other rooms are facing carpark.
The main thing is, we do not have to wait for that long!
And I know hubby cant wait to marry me.. *LOLs!
Wedding dates set except for customary still KIV cos auntie-mummy need to seek fortune teller's opinion..
ROM - 23rd Arpil 2011, Sunday
AD - 20th October 2012 , SaturdayReasons why we chose those dates? (in fact it was me who wanted those dates, tat silly have no opinion at all)
23rd April was quite obvious lah.. It will be our 7th Anniversary which nicely falls on a Sunday. =)
I need to give adequate time for hubby to save up for our customary wedding, so it got to be at least two years apart from now for him to start working and saving up. 20th October was quite a sudden decision. He wanted 20 December instead but it's not a weekend.
So I came out with this brilliant idea of choosing the date in between our birthdays and so we can celebrate one whole month of October in the future.. And after calculating, he said he got no prob with the savings by then and hence, we set the date.
Both parents informed and are waiting for "tong shu" to be out and calculate our lunar birthdays to see if we are suitable to get married that day.. Very ma fan~
Alrite, I revealed our wedding dates liao.. So don't ask me when is my turn the next time you guys see me again alrite? I have been bombarked many times already and it's quite tiring to be secretive.
Regarding the venues, yet to be confirmed cos auntie-mummy and uncle-daddy just informed me that it will be a very grand one with minimum 40 tables. Have to headache for places which are able to consist so many tables considering the budget.
Now, our priorty is our second honeymoon in June.
Not the ROM one year later.. =P
The promises at Effiel Tower.. is coming true soon..-13 days.
